Is it to convert people or to create healthy spiritual conversations or option C?
It seems that evangelism has changed in recent years to become a development of relationships rather than a one and done, seal the deal type of transaction.
The goalpost has shifted from a finish line to pit that on the front end doesn’t have a bottom. It is only in retrospect can you see the end of what that relationship accomplished. In some relationships you will hit the bottom and enter into a new cavern and in other relationships you will continue falling for the rest of your life.
It is not our purpose to know what God will do with a life, but rather to simply sow seeds and God will turn hearts.